tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1479693048632476929.post3282407602958060925..comments2023-08-01T05:10:26.321-06:00Comments on You May Say I'm A Dreamer: Tyler; The Latest...You May Say I'm A Dreamerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16951960903633390194noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1479693048632476929.post-25178230512315533882011-05-25T05:32:24.649-06:002011-05-25T05:32:24.649-06:00Hello Mary, greetings from Northern Ireland.
I a...Hello Mary, greetings from Northern Ireland. <br /><br />I am sad to learn of Tyler's current circumstances. <br /><br />As you say it all comes to to making choices in the end. <br /><br />Knowing you as I do, he would have an informed choice. <br /><br />I must encourage you to remain hopeful and not give in to the sin of despair. <br /><br />I think that some kind on internal battle is going on. <br /><br />I pray that Tyler will conquer this terrible addiction. <br /><br />His bad side is just stronger than his good side at the moment. <br /><br />A fallen angel is still an angel Mary. <br /><br />You all have my continued thoughts and prayers. <br /><br />I must let you know that I think your email address is being used by someone other than you. <br /><br />Just over a week ago I received an e mail, from someone using your email address, with the heading No Subject and just an underlined link as the actual message. <br /><br />There wasn't any greeting or indeed words of any kind. <br /><br />That's why I doubt it was genuinely from you. <br /><br />I've started in a new department for my employer and I'm now working a lot closer to home. <br /><br />This has made me very happy and never again will anyone stand in the way of granting me leave for Beatle week each August. <br /><br />I doubt whether you'll be over this year and I'll miss you and Brad. <br /><br />Keep thinking positively Mary. <br /><br />Lots of love to you and all the family <br /><br />Michael xoxoxoxoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1479693048632476929.post-39519389700979385202011-05-24T01:34:18.723-06:002011-05-24T01:34:18.723-06:00My heart breaks for you.
I watched my mom go throu...My heart breaks for you.<br />I watched my mom go through this same thing for several years, and then when my brother came and lived with me...I don't think I slept an intire night until I heard him come in the house OR the phone rang. One morning I called my mom and told her it was killing me. I loved my brother with everything in my being...we were only 18 month apart. My mom said the same thing you did, it is his choices that will dictate his life, love him no matter what, and sleep.<br />When my brother passed away a few years ago, as horrible as this sounds I asked was it drugs? No, the doctors said that he was clean, but had pnumonia and must have got coughing until he couldn't catch his breath...he passed away before the car came to a stop in a field.<br />One year later, as all of his siblings were in their local temples (Mesa AZ, Portland, OR, Idaho Falls, ID) my dad took his name through the temple...I felt a peace I had never felt before for him. I knew that he had a lot of work ahead of him...but that the doors had been open.<br />My brother, Bruce had an amazing testimony but he had a greater disire to live the life of an addict.<br />Hang in there...<br />Sorry, this is so long...but wanted you to know I know you will be ok.<br />(Because of Bruce and the things he would tell my 3 YOUNG children...each of them will still tell you the reason they never tried drinking, smoking or drugs was because of the things Bruce said to them and taught them about what a horrible thing it was and how he admitted it distroyed his life) I am grateful that he set that in their hearts and mind.Janiecehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07719395047651079234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1479693048632476929.post-64362513504916326682011-05-23T23:32:50.964-06:002011-05-23T23:32:50.964-06:00I am So so so sorry Mary!! My heart goes out to yo...I am So so so sorry Mary!! My heart goes out to you and your son. <br /><br />Just this past month, I've only begun to understand what slavery you are talking about when it comes to addictions. I've stumbled upon some distressing news regarding two very loved ones just this past little while.....and it HURTS! I totally get what you mean when you say it physically hurts!! <br /><br />Hang in there. You inspire me so. I learn much from you.Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17650386366226859611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1479693048632476929.post-26326376616986976362011-05-23T18:57:19.278-06:002011-05-23T18:57:19.278-06:00Mary,
My heart aches for you. As mothers, we love ...Mary,<br />My heart aches for you. As mothers, we love our children so much, and deeply hurt for them when they make poor choices.<br />Tyler is so lucky to have a mother like you, who doesn't give up on him even though I'm sure you feel like it sometimes.<br />I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. *Hugs*<br />Julie CleggJuliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06728934422979902948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1479693048632476929.post-29910239191097774702011-05-23T10:22:44.754-06:002011-05-23T10:22:44.754-06:00I wish I could say something to make this alright....I wish I could say something to make this alright. My mother's heart feels your pain...and it hurts so so bad...the kind of pain that when you wake up in the morning you feel it in your gut. That is, if you slept the night before. The truth is, tough love hurts...real bad. I can't fix it, but I CAN pray...and I WILL Mary. I have seen the Lord work bigger miracles than this one. I promise. He is still in the miracle business. Trust Him if you can. Praying in NC.Love Being A Nonnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10510618983227889123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1479693048632476929.post-37659304274630961272011-05-23T08:25:30.909-06:002011-05-23T08:25:30.909-06:00Mary,
So sorry to hear about Tyler . . . maybe the...Mary,<br />So sorry to hear about Tyler . . . maybe the best thing you can do for him right now will be to NOT bail him out. I know it sounds harsh, but Tyler is a good kid and needs to be where he can't hurt himself. I can't imagine your pain right now .. . know that you are a good mom and you taught Tyler the right way . . . I will keep you and him in my prayers . . . Love you!<br />ConnieConniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01769426991081990251noreply@blogger.com